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Thursday, June 01, 2006

4am

is when my niggling fears loom largest, and I'm most vulnerable to them. You know the kind:

- I bet that twinge in my tooth is an incipient root canal,
- My father's knee pain is going to cripple him within a year,
- My 401K is as good as gone because the stock market is a seething mass of corruption and insider trading,
- The next tsunami will hit East Africa and wipe out my whole country,
- Everything I eat is so full of pesticides and toxins, there's no chance I can avoid cancer,
- What makes me think I can produce a show by autumn?


I've tried going back to sleep.
I've tried tensing and relaxing each muscle.
I've tried tonglen.

The only thing I know that works - and yet I continue to resist it - is to get out of bed and get my body moving. Fear is paralysed energy that needs to be put into motion. The more I stay still and try to tamp it down, the more it builds. Once I move, it flows into ideas, solutions, connection to the world around me. Dissolves into endorphin-spiked-laughter at my internal scaremonger.

2 Comments:

Blogger gio said...

i feel your pain, it's mine too..
but fling into ideas and connections, also if we would like to sleep, isn't bad. we have to appreciate that we can!

hi Shajlia, just to say a huge hi! and give you a goodnight-kiss...

6/05/2006 4:47 AM  
Blogger shailja said...

Thanks Gio! It's heartwarming to know that others are also battling their monsters at 4am :-)

Warm regards to you and all in Bellusco.

Shailja

6/05/2006 12:39 PM  

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